{"id":5915,"date":"2025-07-01T13:00:44","date_gmt":"2025-07-01T11:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zflys.at\/wtf-is-communication\/"},"modified":"2025-11-19T19:06:48","modified_gmt":"2025-11-19T18:06:48","slug":"wtf-is-communication","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zflys.at\/en\/wtf-is-communication\/","title":{"rendered":"WTF is communication?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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WTF is communication?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tCommunication. A word everyone uses, but hardly anyone truly understands. Communication isn\u2019t a simple one-way chat, not some mindless sending and receiving of messages. No, communication is a living, vibrating system that connects us, drives us, and sometimes even makes us lose our minds. \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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Everything communicates.<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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With communication, it\u2019s often a \u201cWTF?!\u201d before it becomes an \u201cAHA \u2014 I get it!\u201d<\/p>

That\u2019s completely normal.<\/p>

Communication. A word everyone uses, but hardly anyone truly understands. That\u2019s exactly what we at zflys asked ourselves \u2014 and the answer is anything but boring. Communication isn\u2019t a simple one-way chat, not some mindless sending and receiving of messages. No, communication is a living, vibrating system that connects us, drives us, and sometimes even pushes us to the brink of frustration. <\/p>

After all, many philosophers, scientists, and writers have tried to squeeze communication into a precise definition. So far, no one has succeeded. <\/p>

That\u2019s also an exciting aspect of communication: it truly makes more sense to think in terms of connection rather than division. After all, our words, sentences, and conversations are meant to connect us. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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At zflys, we start from two directions of communication: <\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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With yourself: intrapersonal communication<\/strong><\/p>

This describes the inner dialogue we have with ourselves. It\u2019s a process in which we reflect on our thoughts and feelings, make decisions, and regulate our behavior. Charles Fernyhough emphasizes that self-talk is a natural and necessary human ability that helps us think about ourselves and solve problems. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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With others: interpersonal communication<\/strong><\/p>

This refers to the exchange of information between two or more people. It includes all forms of communication involving a sender and a receiver and highlights the importance of both the content level and the relationship level. Friedemann Schulz von Thun and Paul Watzlawick emphasize that communication not only transmits information but also affects the relationship between the communication partners. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Enough reading.<\/b><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t
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Intrapersonal communication \u2014 the inner dialogue that controls everything<\/strong><\/p>

This is the conversation you have with yourself. Yes, exactly \u2014 you\u2019re constantly talking to yourself, and that\u2019s a good thing! This inner dialogue helps you make decisions, motivate yourself, and reflect on who you are. <\/p>

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  • You assess your own performance and think about how you can improve.<\/li>
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    Interpersonal communication \u2014 the exchange that shapes relationships<\/strong><\/p>

    This is what you normally understand as communication: conversations, meetings, negotiations, presentations. Here, it\u2019s not just about the content, but also about the relationship level \u2014 how you relate to each other, how well you understand each other, or sometimes don\u2019t. <\/p>

    Typical business examples:<\/p>

    • Team meetings where ideas are exchanged.<\/li>
    • Sales conversations in which you convince customers.<\/li>
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      If your inner dialogue is toxic or chaotic, your external communication will suffer. You cannot communicate clearly if you yourself are not clear. <\/p>

      Without good interpersonal communication, every team, every deal, and every relationship falls apart. It\u2019s not just about what you say, but how you say it \u2014 and how the other person understands it. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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      Communication is everywhere<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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      Did you know that absolutely everything communicates? Yes, really EVERYTHING. Your body language, your silence, your gaze \u2014 even the way you drink your coffee sends messages. Communication isn\u2019t just what you say, but also what you don\u2019t say. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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      Why that matters:<\/b><\/span><\/p>

      • You cannot not communicate. Whether you want to or not, you are constantly sending out signals. <\/li>
      • Communication is more than words. Facial expressions, gestures, tone of voice \u2014 all of this influences how your message is received. <\/li>
      • Understanding is not a one-way street. Communication is a loop, a living cycle of sending, listening, understanding, and responding. <\/li><\/ul>

        If you don\u2019t internalize this, you will keep running into communication barriers \u2014 in your team, with customers, or even with yourself.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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        So this is communication\u2026<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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        \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIn conclusion, intrapersonal communication focuses on a person’s internal dialogue and self-reflection, while interpersonal communication involves the exchange of information and ideas between people in a business context. Both forms of communication are essential for personal development, decision-making, teamwork, and achieving corporate goals. \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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        EUREKA! Do you have questions? <\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
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        Communication is the process of exchanging information and meanings between people through a shared system of symbols, signs, or behaviors. Better communication with yourself leads to better communication with others \u2014 simple concept, big impact. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/details>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t

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        How can I improve my communication skills? <\/div><\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t<\/path><\/svg><\/span>\n\t\t\t<\/path><\/svg><\/span>\n\t\t<\/span>\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/summary>\n\t\t\t\t
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        \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tPractice, reflection, and feedback are the key. Coaching at zflys, like our Dine & Talk or Digi Talk, helps you take your communication to the next level \u2014 with Viennese charm and wit. \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/details>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t
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        \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tGood communication is the key to success \u2014 especially in a world that is becoming more connected and more digital. Invest now to avoid misunderstandings and strengthen relationships. \t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/details>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t